I've noticed that some portrayals of the disability experience in fiction are pretty much diametrically opposed to the disability experi...

Sometimes I try and come up with new frames to explain the decisions I make (or not-so-voluntary things that people think are decisions).  S...

I've been writing about the idea that you can't forgive someone until they're sorry .  Obviously, this isn't a rule, it'...

I have been thinking about boundaries a lot and have a bunch of posts stewing.  Some of my posts are about having strong boundaries, but tod...

Content warning for gaslighting type stuff, I guess. In November I made a few posts about how I have to be harsh with people sometimes bec...

warnings: abuse, suicide, supercrippery What is a supercrip? I use the word supercrip a lot (though not as much as I used to) and it...

Some more about the stuff the other day. I think having compassion or trying to understand someone's point of view is a luxury.  Wel...